The initiation of divorce proceedings is a daunting task, and the first meeting with a divorce lawyer can feel vulnerable and overwhelming. Though all situations are different, there are some key points of discussion to ensure the intake is productive.
Key Questions
- It is worthwhile to ask your lawyer how long she has been practicing family law, and if there are any specializations and qualifications granting further divorce expertise.
- It is essential to set expectations for communication, including frequency, preferred channel (phone, email, video conference, etc.), and how to reach your lawyer in case of emergency.
- The role of any other office staff members working on your case should be explained and their experience detailed.
- Financial matters are integral – namely the up-front retainer fee, billing method, and hourly rate. Note that services rendered by other professionals such as paralegals, accountants, investigators, or physicians will incur other charges.
Strategic Process
- With these logistics addressed, your lawyer can then be asked about her overall strategy for the case, as well as a best time estimate for how long the process will take.
- Expectations for negotiations with the spouse, either directly or through a third party, should be set. An experienced lawyer should also know the financial (taxes, alimony) and family (custody, child support) ramifications of the filing spouse’s plan of action.
- Based on the information the attorney has, she may give her opinion on how a judge may rule on the case.
- This first meeting, when approached with preparedness and an open mind, will chart a collaborative course for a smooth-as-possible process.
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